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BREAKING:  RIP Melanie Andress-Tobiasson, dead by suicide at 53. [8NewsNow
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January 20, 2023 7:07 pm

The author of this blog apparently is not only clever but also has great taste in music. I hope the author and many of my colleagues caught the fantastic concert that David Crosby performed at Red Rock in 2019. Somehow, against all odds, the man still had his angelic voice. And if you never saw his brutally honest and wholly authentic Twitter postings and interactions with anybody and everybody, you missed out on an all-time high point of Twitter.

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January 24, 2023 12:25 am
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I did. It was great. What a talent.

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January 20, 2023 8:33 pm

Yes, please do oblige 12:30 and delete 12:30's post as 12:30 requested. Thanks.

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January 20, 2023 8:36 pm

Just a rant. Certain judges in family court ran on the premise that we needed good judges in family court and since they were experienced family law practitioners, the inference was that they would be good judges. Instead, they have become just another cog in the family court machine. Ignoring law and precedent and issuing orders that benefit their friends. They know from practicing down there that most litigants cannot afford appeals so they do whatever they want with virtual impunity. Voters need to know about this stuff.

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January 20, 2023 10:06 pm
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@12:36p – Are you talking about those same voters that gave us Elizabeth Halverson? Come on.

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January 20, 2023 10:17 pm

What happened to Mcfarling? She is not listed in the list of applicants for dept C anymore. All of the sudden she got some competition and bowed out?

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January 20, 2023 11:02 pm
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McFarland withdrew

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January 20, 2023 11:38 pm
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Now that's too bad. She would be a good judge. There is another woman who put her name in for Dept C. My response is "Oh hell no."

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January 20, 2023 11:52 pm
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I agree with 3:38. Super oh hell no!! I like Lou Schneider for the win.

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January 22, 2023 9:52 am
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3:38 and 3:52–If you are saying a hard "No" on her on account of her ability and experience, I do not agree at all. She is quite bright, very knowledgeable, very hard-working, very well-prepared and quite experienced. And she really briefs and argues well.

However, if you are saying a hard "No" on her based on demeanor, temperament, and how difficult she can be to work with, I cannot take much issue with your opinion. But she will probably be appointed. Probably will between her or Lynn Hughes-and of those two, probably her.

But, don't ye abandon all hope who enter here. Often people have far different approaches as judges than they had as attorneys. Often, attorneys who are difficult to deal with become judges, and they become a lot more congenial and user-friendly as judges.

And, yes, sometimes the opposite occurs-courteous, pleasant attorneys ascend to the bench and eventually contact robeitis(of which there is no known cure except removal from office or retirement.).

3:52 believes it will neither be her or Lynn Hughes, but suggests Lou Schneider pulls it off. I really like him and believe he could do a real good job, but I have a concern that he might take a hard sell approach to the committee, and perhaps not tone it down much if he advances to the Governor interview as a finalist. I could well be wrong about that, and hopefully I am.

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January 21, 2023 1:10 am

HOLY SHITE…..Judge Tobiasson…..

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January 21, 2023 1:15 am
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Oh no so much tragedy there.

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January 21, 2023 1:32 am
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Why am I reminded of the Simon and Garfunkel song "Richard Cory"? So sad.

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January 21, 2023 4:38 am
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Who determined suicide? Was it Metro? Just asking.

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January 21, 2023 5:33 am
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Metro fucking sucks.

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January 21, 2023 5:05 pm
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Judges are elected by the people; the Judicial Discipline Commission is not. She should not have been hounded out of office.

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January 21, 2023 5:07 pm
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Metro is corrupt.

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January 21, 2023 1:52 am

Wow. That’s incredibly sad. My heart goes out to her family.

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January 21, 2023 8:20 am

Treated like shit by the Judicial Discipline Commission. How about showing people a little bit of grace? Hope they are happy with themselves now.

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January 21, 2023 3:56 pm

This is all really shocking and sad. Whatever the reason, members of our community are feeling helpless and consumed to the point of ending it all. Children have been left behind. Death is so final. I would hope that everyone could keep this in mind next time that they want to go for a colleague’s jugular. Why is there so much projection of negativity and toxic behavior in this profession? We are charged with maintaining order, that’s why people hire us. Can we stop creating chaos for others professionally? Please. Perhaps, if we see a colleague in chaos, rather than gossiping, kicking them when their down, or watching in judgment, maybe we intervene with some empathy and kindness? I’m really tired of watching us destroy ourselves from within, nitpicking and tribalist behavior. Enough already. We need to feel safe to ask for help or this list will continue to grow. It’s devastating.

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January 21, 2023 4:33 pm
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All rise with 7:56 AM. đź‘Źđź‘Źđź‘Ź

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January 21, 2023 6:10 pm
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Agree with 7:56 AM, but it wasn't the zealotry of attorneys in private practice who drive Judge Tobiasson to kill herself. It was a very corrupt Metro and the Judicial Discipline Commission. Shame on both institutions.

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January 21, 2023 6:29 pm
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Concur with 7:56 AM. Judge Tobiasson was a decent and popular J.P.. What we don't know is what we don't know. These Judicial Discipline proceedings are extremely stressful. They wanted wanted her gone and succeeded. What was going on behind the scenes. Their have been Judges who were accussed of far more and who challenged the charges and beat them.

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January 21, 2023 9:16 pm
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Very well-said, 7:56. I agree with every word.

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January 21, 2023 11:10 pm
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I've been admitted to practice in three states – a very small state, a very big state, and Nevada. The difference between swearing-in ceremonies in each was eye-opening for me.

The other two states structured their ceremonies were modest and inclusive. But Nevada? Our swearing-in featured a local attorney who offered little more than a recitation of her own accomplishments, followed by a few speeches which seemed to focus exclusively on how severely we would be punished if we didn’t comply with the rules.

At the time, I was astonished by how impersonal and borderline antagonistic the “ceremony” in Vegas felt; it seemed less as though I was entering a community of professionals as much as I was being told I was an uninvited guest who would be thrown out as soon as the Powers That Be found an excuse to do so. It made more sense to me after I realized that this community enacted laws making it illegal to feed the homeless. It made even more sense after a private landowner attempted to build homeless shelters on his own North Las Vegas land with his own money, and the city used taxpayer dollars to raze those shelters so that the homeless could later be arrested for vagrancy and sent to jail. Empathy and kindness aren’t merely in short supply in the Vegas legal community; we have actually chosen to make empathy and kindness towards our most needy residents unlawful.

So now, the professional tribe who wrote the laws outlawing empathy takes a collective moment of silence after our self-designed ethical oversight machinery allegedly caught one of our own between its thresher-blades and ground her up. Can we seriously assume we can fix the problem by importing our big-box concepts of empathy and kindness from their places of origin and consume them here whenever it suits us, the same way we imported the machinery of life into a deep desert through global supply chains and buy it off the shelf whenever we want? I don’t think so. Lawyers are in the service business, and we reflect the ambitions of the community we serve. Our local economy centers on taking strangers’ money in exchange for magic beans, and showing them the door immediately after they’ve spent it all. Lake Mead water levels keep getting lower, and communities in larger neighboring states are already starting to fight each other over dwindling water supplies. Despite unsustainable population growth, more people keep moving to Vegas.

A transient community like Vegas, which will be obligated to cull its own residents without having first developed any sustainable sense of collective purpose, will rely on the raw text of the law to justify their choices of who gets to stay here, and who gets evicted. That means attacks against each other will become more vicious as fewer resources exist to distribute, those attacks will be more strictly legal in nature, and they will feel more arbitrary in application because they lack any moral underpinning. OP correctly points out that our professional tribe is in charge of maintaining order, so we will be the ones who draft and justify and enforce those future eviction laws against our anonymous neighbors, the same way we already did when we chose to make empathy and kindness for the homeless unlawful.

The concept of shelter is one even animals understand. After we’ve compartmentalized whatever residual guilt and shame we may feel when enforcing those future laws and evicting our neighbors, will we be more empathetic and kind towards each other, or less? I think less. So while I very much want to agree with OP and believe that change is possible if we just change our attitude towards each other, I think it’s more likely that the realities of our community, and our role in it, will result in repetition of this tragedy.

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January 21, 2023 11:20 pm
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Thanks 7:56.

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January 23, 2023 4:03 pm
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I have a relative who works at the jail and she tells me many of the married metro officers are having affairs with nurses or clerks so it's not surprising to me to hear the accusations on here of metro being corrupt.

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January 23, 2023 5:15 pm
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@7:56 agree but I also agree with 10:10. This wasn’t a private practice issue. The Commission on Judicial Discipline has gotten as overzealous as OBC. There doesn’t seem to be an interest in improving the practice of law or the judiciary, but rather to seek out and destroy. The list is going to keep growing until we collectively do something about it.

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January 23, 2023 5:49 pm
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Agree that the Commission is very overzealous and needs a housecleaning, but I don't really know what can be done about it. And that's the problem: These folks are unelected and there is zero accountability.

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January 24, 2023 5:01 pm
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Adultery among Metro, the various Fire Departments and all of the hospitals has been an ongoing thing for decades. Nothing new here.

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January 21, 2023 6:17 pm

People make fun of states like Alabama and Kentucky, but Nevada is the most trashy, low class, and corrupt state in the union. RIP Melanie, you were too good for this rotten state.

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January 21, 2023 9:38 pm
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I’ve posted before, licensed in az ut and nv and sorry but nv bar is soooooo different and just plain low class

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January 21, 2023 9:39 pm
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I didn’t mean bar as in lawyers I meant as In bar association – sorry at a stoplight

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January 21, 2023 10:28 pm
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I agree. The Nevada state bar is trash.

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January 21, 2023 11:18 pm

I'm so sad for her. God Bless and RIP.

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January 22, 2023 4:36 am
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I am too. And I didn't know her. I only appeared before her once. I never understood why the powers that be seemed to be after her, from the judicial commission to Metro. I'm truly sorry for her and her family. Such a tragedy.

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January 23, 2023 3:09 am
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Rip in judge melanie. A truly nice lady. May you rest in peace sweet lady.

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January 23, 2023 5:57 pm
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My focus is own judge melanie and her family. She was a teal nice lady. May thoughts and prayers are with them.

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January 23, 2023 5:57 pm
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On

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January 23, 2023 5:58 pm
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Real

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January 23, 2023 6:59 am

I'm curious, what did Melanie Tobiasson do for work after leaving the bench? This news is so heartbreaking.

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January 23, 2023 5:51 pm

The cursory, brief news articles concerning Judge Tobiasson's passing tend to greatly over-simply and streamline matters whereby a very complex, multi-layered situation is reduced to a few largely misleading conclusions.

They make her sound like someone who completely abdicated her judicial role and became a rogue vigilante, who was finally forced to resign rather than face upcoming judicial discipline proceedings.

But the actual realty of the situation may be a lot more complex than that. There are a series of detailed investigative pieces available on line from the Baltimore Examiner.

If those investigative pieces are largely accurate(and, yes, that could be a big "if") what emerges is a portrait of someone who at times went way too far conducting her own investigations while being a sitting judge(which is of course quite improper), but that is somewhat balanced out or mitigated by a pretty convincing analysis that she was unable to secure proper help from the authorities in response to arguably valid info. suggesting that Tobiasson's daughter, and other teenagers, were at risk at being taken into a teen prostitution ring.

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January 23, 2023 6:02 pm
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Well said 9:51. This was grossly mischaracterized by the Commission as a situation in which she was using her office for personal gain. That would be true if she was flashing her ID to try and get out of a DUI, or pulling rank to get a family member out of jail, or something like that. That isn't what happened here. I believe that some of her activities did cross the line, but you have to consider the extremely unique circumstances. She should not have been hounded out of office.

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January 23, 2023 6:13 pm
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I agree that the news coverage does not provide sufficient context. However, if you go read social media and reddit outside of our legal circles, people around town have a strong sense that something is amiss here. There is a huge ongoing thread in /r/vegaslocals on this and the comments cut decisively in favor of suspicion of the powers that be. The general public may not understand the distinction between the Bar and the Commission, but I give them credit for picking up that Judge Tobiasson was not some rogue, unethical judge.

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January 23, 2023 7:41 pm
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Agree with 9:51 and 10:02. The part about "using the prestige of her office for personal gain or to obtain preferential treatment" would have been supportable if she took the type of self-serving actions, to avoid responsibility, that 10:02 mentions.

But what this amounted to was that when she believed that she had compelling evidence that such clothing store was used as a front to recruit teens into prostitution, and she took the info. to some fairly high-ranking Metro official who is tasked with dealing with such matters.

The argument against her is that the average person, whose teen daughter might be in immediate and serious peril, would NOT have been permitted to reach out directly to such higher ranking official, but would only be afforded access to someone much lower in the METRO food chain.

So, by chastising the judge for making direct connection to someone who had far more direct authority to intervene and help, that supports a very ill-advised and arrogant narrative that the Discipline Commission and METRO should be ashamed of, rather than assertively advancing: that average citizens, no matter how much their child and other children may be in real harm's way, better slavishly adhere to administrative protocol, and better never attempt to leap frog their complaint and concerns to someone higher up in administration.

I have always been stunned that such remains one of the main themes they hammer her with–how dare, she, or any other concerned parent, take an issue(even an immediate danger to children issue) to someone higher up without exhausting all their lower remedies and steps.

In the time it takes to work one's way up the METRO totem pole with their concerns, children in danger have a much greater chance of being harmed. Time is of the absolute essence.

If they want to get after her for threatening people and kicking in doors, well fine. But this part about how dare she directly reach out to a higher ranking official, who could actually potentially take some immediate action, is mind-boggling.

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January 23, 2023 8:00 pm
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"…that average citizens, no matter how much their child and other children may be in real harm's way, better slavishly adhere to administrative protocol, and better never attempt to leap frog their complaint and concerns to someone higher up in administration."

TRANSLATION, FROM METRO: "There's nothing we can do, it's a civil matter." This is what Metro says when it can't be bothered to do its job.

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January 23, 2023 6:02 pm

9:51-But her conduct wasn't just confined to her own "investigations" but also alleged very aggressive and highly improper conduct such as threatening people she believed should be considered suspects, kicking their door in, etc.

That said, yes I agree that on the other side of the equation a viable case emerges that she may have accumulated more than enough info. to suggest the risk to these teenagers, and that it could be the authorities should have done more to pursue such leads. But it is possible that by then the authorities may have tried of her and did not put any real viability into anything she alleged.

It appears she sincerely believed her daughter was at risk of real harm, and even destruction, and no parent can be expected to always act rationally under those circumstances. But when we take strong action to protect our own, we are at all times aware that there are laws and rules designed to control our behaviors–particularly if we are lawyers or judges.

But just an utterly tragic, heart-breaking situation.