RIP Laurel Davis Babero

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From a statement sent out by the District Court of Nevada:

On behalf of the Bankruptcy and District Court families, we regret to inform you that Judge Laurel Elizabeth (Davis) Babero has passed away. Judge Babero accepted her appointment as a United States Bankruptcy Judge for the District of Nevada on July 12, 2013. On April 8, 2018, she and Andras F. Babero were married in New York City.Judge Babero practiced law for 26 years in Nevada and Arizona prior to taking the bench. The scope of her representation included debtors, individuals, trustees, committees and creditors in bankruptcy proceedings, as well as commercial litigation, arbitration, workouts and restructuring. She also served as a Chapter 11 trustee. Judge Babero is a Master with the Howard D. McKibben Inn of Court. She has held a business bankruptcy certification since 1993, from the American Board of Certification, which is accredited by the American Bar Association. Judge Babero was a friend and respected colleague who took her work seriously and was a joy to be around. We are grateful for her public service and she will be dearly missed by the Court family.

Chief District Court Judge Gloria M. Navarro

Chief Bankruptcy Court Judge Bruce T. Beesley

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November 20, 2018 4:27 pm

"If any of you are struggling right now, please don't hesitate to ask for help. If any of you are not struggling right now, consider reaching out to those people in your life who might be. A quick message or phone call goes a long way."

Let me add to this: Take a good look in the mirror and determine if you are the reason that people are struggling and stop it. We are not only not a profession that necessarily helps people who are at the edge but are a profession that drives not only ourselves but others to the edge.

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November 20, 2018 4:30 pm
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YES! We can still be zealous advocates and aggressive litigators without driving each other to mental breakdowns. Also, there is absolutely no good reason to anonymously trash someone in these comments.

When I think of the very best litigators that I know, especially those who have been practicing for decades, they are almost all men and women of grace who treat others with dignity and respect while effectively doing their job.

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November 20, 2018 4:54 pm

The comments I have seen on here about lawyers is gross. You are a lowly person to trash another lawyer on here to advance your case. Karma.

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November 20, 2018 4:54 pm

are

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November 20, 2018 5:13 pm

I do not pay attention to those comments. Usually there is personal motivation to post nasty comments about another colleague. If you are good at what you do, you will poss someone off.

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November 20, 2018 5:28 pm

Those are trolls, baby. I think you meant to say piss off. Yes, I do not pay attention to trolls, either.

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November 20, 2018 5:58 pm

Did she commit suicide at the Federal Building? This is so sad.

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November 20, 2018 7:18 pm
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She was gone for about 4 months last year. I'm thinking (and thought at the time) perhaps it was cancer treatment?

The gossip on this is completely non-existent; this is simply my speculation.

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November 20, 2018 7:42 pm
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Gossip would just be speculation compounded by multiple, sequential misunderstandings.

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November 20, 2018 7:15 pm

I think the observations made by 8:27 and 8:30, although perhaps a little too forcefully and aggressively stated, are by no means inappropriate as they mention no specific attorneys.

So, since there seems to be some real concern expressed on this thread about attorneys being attacked, I assume there are some comments which have been deleted which reference specific attorneys. If there were no such remarks targeting specific attorneys, and this great offense centers around the remarks of 8:27 and 8:30, I think that is an over-reaction to their remarks as they mention no specific attorneys.

Again, they could have dialed back their rhetoric a bit, but everyone has dealt with the types of attorneys they describe. So, can anyone truly say they are wrong?

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November 20, 2018 8:29 pm
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I have been tracking this thread all morning and believe that your assumption is incorrect. I have seen exactly zero comments posted referencing specific attorneys. I have seen no one take offense to a thread which suggests being a little nicer to each other.

I see nothing in what 8:27 or 8:30 said which requires dialing back rhetoric at all. Be nicer.

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November 20, 2018 9:14 pm

11:15 seems to basically agree that the remarks of 8:27 and 8:30 are accurate. Perhaps 11:15 is not accurate that those posts could benefit from being phrased in a mellower fashion.

But 11:15 is absolutely, irrefutably correct that this morning's thread is replete with people being offended by the fact that specific attorneys(not just attorneys in general) are being attacked, but that since it is impossible to locate a post where a specific attorney is mentioned, that some comments must have been deleted.

That is not a matter of opinion, but is a fact. Posts are attacking attorneys for attacking specific other attorneys in certain posts, but no such posts exist wherein any attorneys are specifically named.

So, basic logic dictates that either: (1) Several posters irrationally attack others for specifically attacking certain named attorneys when no such posts, naming specific attorneys,actually exist(highly unlikely): or(2)There were posts naming certain attorneys but they have been removed(quite likely.)

Just look at 8:54, 9:13, 9:28, and others. Why would they be reacting that way if the only offense of other posters was in commenting on was bad habits that some lawyers exhibit, but no one was singled out by name? Answer is that someone was naming names, and the comments were subsequently, and quite understandably, deleted.

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November 20, 2018 10:46 pm
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Perhaps they’re referring to threads beyond today’s.

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November 20, 2018 10:53 pm
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Yeah that's a pretty obvious possible (3).

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November 20, 2018 9:19 pm

This is the dumbest timeline.

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November 20, 2018 10:23 pm
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+1

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November 20, 2018 10:34 pm
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+1000. Even the nicest threads just derail for some reason. It truly is as if some people see something nice and the only mark they can leave is fecal covered.

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November 20, 2018 11:51 pm
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@2:34 Love the use of the word "FECAL."

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November 20, 2018 11:02 pm

Congrats to Judge David Gibson

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November 21, 2018 1:59 am

The only thing that matters now is that the Nevada Bankruptcy Court lost a great person and judge. It is not about us lawyers. It's about Judge Babero and her colleagues and family. In my limited experience with Judge Babero, I was struck by her fairness. I want to offer my deepest sympathy to her colleagues and family for the tragic loss of a wonderful person.

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November 21, 2018 2:24 am
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I join in your respect for Laurel and sympathy for her family and colleagues. However I disagree that "[t]he only thing that matters now" is Judge Babero. I have a colleague and a friend who went/is going through a terribly tough time personally and professionally now and who has rendered himself unreachable. He matters.

I have a friend and colleague who was diagnosed in the last 3 weeks with a debilitating illness that will drain her finances and maybe take her life and who discussed taking the exit before she loses her faculties and bankrupts her family. She matters.

We had a poster who posted on the Friday thread and again yesterday (before any of this news about the Judge hit the wires) who talked about a personal and professional apocalypse due to perceptions of inadequacy or incompetence. That poster matters. Each member of this board (no matter how snarky) matters.

I mourn Judge Babero's life but no more than I value the lives of each of the foregoing colleagues of yours and mine who we can still help, who we can still reach and who we can help to hopefully save. Happy Holidays and Hope to each of you.

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November 21, 2018 2:45 am

I don't know if this law blog is the right place to memorialize Laurel, but her untimely passing is a tragic loss to the bankruptcy bar and the entire Nevada legal community. Laurel was one of the nicest, most genuine persons I have ever had the pleasure of practicing with and appearing before—she was truly a class act through and through—who always treated everyone in a professional and compassionate manner. From her time in private practice at Lionel Sawyer & Collins and Fennemore Craig, Laurel took on some of the most complex, difficult work, and on both the creditor and debtor side in bankruptcy court, which she always handled with an incredible amount of skill and grace. Laurel had an astounding knowledge of bankruptcy law, and brought a real intellectual bent to her practice that was so admirable. What also made her so remarkable was that she was so open to sharing that knowledge with others. Laurel was one of those attorneys that whenever you had a case with her, you knew she was going to be well prepared, and you would always learn something new from her.

After ascending to the bench, she was a true pleasure to appear before. I fondly remember a large chapter 11 case she presided over right after she took the bench that involved a number of very aggressive and competing factions, and she did an amazing job managing all of the different personalities and the difficult issues involved, while at the same time cutting through to the real legal issues and ignoring all of the “noise.” She also had such a disarmingly friendly demeanor about her on the bench that you couldn’t help but like her. I recall in this same case when, in the middle of trial, some accusations were exchanged and all the attorneys were hauled back to chambers. Instead of reprimanding the attorneys, upon entering her chambers, she cracked “welcome to the world of Bon Jovi” (as you could not miss the JBJ pictures everywhere) and, after everyone had a chuckle, she quietly and patiently listened to everyone and ultimately admonished everyone to just work together to get through the proceedings. Later in that same case, after some intense briefing on some potentially case dispositive issues, which it was clear she had read and considered very carefully, she said to the attorneys words to the affect that “Look, I’ve known you both for a long time, and you both know I need to allow this process to play out, so that is what I’m going to do. But I am also going to look to you both to be professionals and work out the remainder of this case, and I know you will.” As a Judge she had the knowledge to know the right answer–even on difficult and contentious issue, but also the grace and practical sense to mediate the parties and guide them to working on a real resolution for everyone’s ultimate benefit at the same time. We could all learn from her example.

Judge Davis, and most recently Judge Barbero, should be remembered as that Judge that would come up and give you a hug at bar functions, that Judge that always had a smile for you, and that Judge who always asked how you were doing and truly meant it, as she remembered what it was like to grind it out in private practice even after she became a judge. She will be missed. May God rest her soul.

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November 21, 2018 3:01 am
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This is a very nice tribute. Well done.

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November 21, 2018 3:04 am
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I did not know this Judge, but she sounds like a real nice lady. A rarity in our profession.

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November 22, 2018 2:13 pm
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I knew her in passing when I first started doing BK and she was so well respected and very nice.

I can't stop thinking about my own attempt because of professional pressures coupled with depression and anxiety and even going so far as saying goodbye… So I will say this: when you get into that mindset, depression lies. It lies to you and tells you that no one will miss you, that everyone will be happier. It lies to you and tells you that this is how to make it stop hurting so much. And it does hurt. For people who know what it feels like, I'm sorry that you know. But for people who don't know, it is not something that can be understood except to say it makes scary perfect sense that it is the only option. You even apply your legal thinking to it. You, in that moment, genuinely think your children or spouse or what have you will be so much better off.

Even the memory of how much sense it made scares me sometimes since.

Don't believe the lie your brain is telling you. And maybe we shouldn't take addiction CLE credits, we should take suicide prevention and all get real tools to support each other and help break the cycle of the lies depression tells us.

Thinking of her family and friends this Thanksgiving.

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November 26, 2018 1:33 pm
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7:04 — We are all sad about Laurel Davis' passing, and you would have been fine if you just stopped after the words "real nice lady." You didn't need to demean every other judge with your trivial tribute to someone you didn't even know.

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November 27, 2018 4:59 pm
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As an associate, I worked with Laurel at LS&C 20 years ago. I did not do BK work, but she also did some general civil litigation. She was a pleasure of a partner and a person. One thing I learned from her was a work/life balance. She used to work extra-long hours for most of the year, so that she could take extra-long, multiple vacations.

It sounds strange, but I hope it was illness-related rather than something more self-inflicted. I have often thought of her over the years, and this news makes me sad.

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November 27, 2018 6:56 pm
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Unfortunately it was both. Those closest to her recently know of the illness that she had battled and the cause of death. Candidly I am amazed how quiet the cause has been based upon her prominence as a Federal Judge. When attorneys have befallen the same fate, this Blog has lit up like a Christmas tree excoriating them.

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November 28, 2018 1:58 am

She was a great judge. Having appeared in front of her on many occasions, I found her to be really thoughtful and fair like so many others have said. She will be missed.

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December 14, 2018 10:13 am

I come here today not as a colleague, family member or friend. I am actually a Pro Se Chapter 13 debtor and Judge Babero oversaw my cases yes i had two
I would like to express my sincerest condolences to Judge Laurel Babero's family and all that knew her. I never had the chance to meet her in person but was finally going to be able to at my confirmation hearing .well that didn't work out and I literally felt my stomach turn as if she were my own family member. I couldn't figure out what happened to her and now after reading all of this I am able to understand a bit more. I am in shock and after seeing her so happy it's hard to understand why it happened but I get it. No one truly knows what's going on with anybody. The only ones who know are the individuals themselves. RIP JUDGE BABERO I wish I could have at least met you. You left quite an impression down here in your time. You are now an angel .

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December 18, 2018 12:49 am

I was first friends with Andras Babero and remember when we went to church together one day he told me about Laurel and he was endlessly smitten by her. He just lit up when he talked about her.

A few months later, I told Andras that I was going to get married at my home, and that I needed someone to perform the ceremony. This was New Year's Eve, before Andras and Laurel got married in April. It's a good thing I have confidence, because all of the men at the wedding talked non-stop about the "hot judge" and how beautiful she was. When I read the news about her passing away, I was stunned by her age. She appeared so young, healthy and happy.

I still can't find out what happened to her. I know it was suicide, but I am really reluctant to ask Andras about the details. I am praying for them, and pray they will see each other again and reunite in heaven, for those who believe in that. They just seemed so in love and so happy. I really don't even have the words for how sad this makes me.